Bil Shami
Friday Rituals in Damascus That You Should Know About
Before the year 2000, Friday was the only day off for everyone in Syria. This day had its own special rituals, especially for the people of Damascus. While Fridays have changed over the years, many families still hold on to these traditions.
Morning Coffee
A cup of coffee on Friday morning is sacred because it’s a time to relax and enjoy it leisurely. Most people love to listen to Fairouz while drinking their coffee, and if the weather is nice in the summer, the coffee is enjoyed on the balcony.
Friday Prayers in Damascus City
As usual, men in Damascus go for Friday prayers around noon, which lasts about an hour. During this time, women at home begin cleaning and preparing for breakfast.
Fatteh and Foul
Foul (fava beans) or teskiyeh (a dish made with bread and chickpeas) is a Friday ritual in Damascus. The father usually brings home the beans or chickpeas after prayer, while the wife prepares the other dishes. The father then showcases his skills in seasoning the foul or adding ghee to the teskiyeh. Some families prepare, breakfast before prayer.
Friday Lunch
The family gathers for Friday lunch, with children and grandchildren coming together at the grandparents’ house. Lunch often extends into the evening. The Friday meal is usually special, often featuring dishes like grilled meats or stuffed vegetables.
Afternoon Nap
An afternoon nap after lunch is a staple, lasting about an hour or an hour and a half. This time is reserved for rest, especially for the elderly, who use it to recharge for the rest of the day. Children often dislike this time as they have to quiet down and stop playing.
Friday Evening
The evening is reserved for social obligations like visiting to congratulate or offer condolences, or catching up with an old friend. Visits usually last no more than an hour, after which everyone returns home and prepares for Saturday, especially if there is work or school.
In summary, Friday in Damascus was a family-oriented and socially engaging day, and the most important thing was not to spend it alone at home.