No one loves you or worries about you like your mum. And no one can tell you off and then ask five minutes later if you’ve eaten! Syrian mums have their own way of showing love. They can yell at you, feed you, and tell you to take a jacket all in the same conversation. Here are 13 things almost every Syrian mum does. How many does your mum do?
“Just eat two bites.”
Those two bites quickly turn into rice, salad, yogurt, and then: “Why aren’t you eating?”
For a Syrian mum, being full doesn’t count.

It can be sunny and warm, but if there’s a little wind: “Take a jacket!”
And if you get sick later: “Didn’t I tell you?”

“Don’t touch it. I put it somewhere safe.”
A week later, everyone is looking for it.
And she’s asking: “Who took it?”

There’s one big bag full of smaller bags.
Try to throw one away and you’ll hear: “Keep it! We might need it.”
And somehow, you actually will.

You open a biscuit tin and find sewing supplies.
With a Syrian mum, never trust the box!
Where are you going? Who are you going with? When are you coming back?
It doesn’t matter how old you are. She still wants to know.

First call: “Where are you?”
Second call: “Why aren’t you answering?”
By the third call, she has already imagined everything that could have happened.
Meanwhile, you’re just looking for a parking spot.

“Do you want anything from outside?”
“No, habibi. Be safe.”
You reach the door.
“Actually, get some bread.”
Then she remembers two more things.

Someone is coming to clean the house?
Better clean the house first.
Why?
“What will she think of us?”
“I’m full.”
A Syrian mum hears: “Give me more food.”
And the plate gets filled again.
You say “Hello” on the phone and she already knows.
“What’s wrong? You don’t sound okay.”
“I’m fine.”
She doesn’t believe you.
She can complain about you all day.
But if someone else says something about you?
Suddenly, she’s on your side.
You can grow up, get a job, travel, and have your own family.
She’ll still ask:
“Did you eat?”
And if you say yes:
“What did you eat?”
Because no matter how old you get, you’re still her kid.
What does your mum do that makes you think all Syrian mums agreed on the same rules?
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